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I noticed today that Miss Understands was temporarily suspended. Based on a message in a chat room I think that may have ultimately been Rory Alsop's decision, but I am not sure.

I have no connection to Miss Understands and no particular personal interest in the suspension, but I am a frequent lurker of this board and HNQ and have seen her questions (and comments) on this and other sites. She is often brash, if not outright disrespectful. She is also open about her difficulties in judging other's tone, and frequently asks for specific examples of where she can improve.

In the spirit of that request, I am opening this question: what, in the post-mortem analysis, pushed this user over the line for a temp suspension? An example that comes to mind might be not only assuming that criticism of a question is a personal attack, but then also saying so with comments such as "this guy just doesn't like me".

I remember another user who learned not to take criticism on questions as personal criticism, so I feel that the exercise could have value.

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  • $\begingroup$ She attacked me and posted a rude remark. Not going to give details on that. $\endgroup$
    – Nilay Ghosh
    Commented Dec 10 at 1:31
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    $\begingroup$ At the very least, I have seen constant flaggable rude comments and posts on some sites from this user. Those comments and posts have been deleted though, and while privileged users can see deleted posts, only mods can see deleted comments, so most users won't know the big picture. That said, mods won't indulge this private information unless the user gives explicit permission to disclose it. $\endgroup$
    – Andrew T.
    Commented Dec 10 at 10:47
  • $\begingroup$ "She is often brash, if not outright disrespectful. She is also open about her difficulties in judging other's tone, and frequently asks for specific examples of where she can improve." She's been calling other people derogatory names since at least her meta question from a bit ago and its chat $\endgroup$
    – Erin Anne
    Commented Dec 10 at 23:48

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